In 2006, in his cult work King Kong Theory, Virginie Despentes noted the limits of heterosexuality: “Men love men. They explain to us how much they love women, but we all know that They bobe us. They love each other, between them (…). By dint of hearing them complaining that women do not fuck enough, do not like sex as it should, never understand anything, we cannot s’ prevent us from wondering: what are they waiting for to bother? Go ahead. If it can make you more smiling, it’s that it’s good. “
Sixteen years later, literary news addresses the question of a possible dead end of gender relationships. Two trials have recently been their purpose: getting out of heterosexuality, Juliet Drouar (Binge Audio, 2021), and how to become a lesbian in ten stages, from Louise Morel (out of reach, 226 pages, 12 euros). The same questioning emerges in more general works, such as the sex of women, of Anne Akrich (Gallimard, 192 pages, 18.50 euros), where we can read this fun encourage: “Sleep with another woman when we are a woman is like finding a very good osteopath. “
You have to measure the way: in 2009, a publishing house like the Musardine offered the advice of a lesbian to make love to a woman (by Marie Candoe), then in 2015 the advice of a Gay to make love to a man (by Erik Rémès). Homosexuality was used to collect heterosexuals. Today, it would rather be to seize!
Sexual satisfaction
Are we therefore faced with yet another signal from the end of living together (and let’s be crazy, civilization)? Not so sure. The criticism of the heterosexual system is coupled with an immediate and concrete expectation: having a softer life … and a more fulfilled sexuality. If you don’t mind, I will voluntarily leave aside the societal aspects related to homosexuality in this column – and in particular LGBTPHOBI – to focus only on sexual satisfaction. As you will see, the cantors of homosexual fullness have solid arguments.
Let’s start with orgasm: if gay and heterosexual men reach almost the same frequency, this is not the case for lesbian women (who arrive at 86 % of time) and heterosexual (66 % of time, according to the archives of sex behaviour, 2018 ). An identical differential is observed in French surveys: 19 % of hetero women say they have “often” difficult to reach orgasm, but 0 % of lesbians. 99 % of the latter find their current partner very attentive to their pleasure, against 88 % of hetero … which remains, all the same, a good score (source: Ifop/Online Séduction, 2019 ). ). ). ). /p>
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